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  • Jul. 6th, 2009 at 8:18 PM
Magic Peak
The summary:

Well, first you want to check out the photos, here.

Kazha's first experience traveling with us was fun. The first morning there, she encountered her first deer, who then, promptly, decided to encounter her. Yep, the deer followed her through the backyard of my parents' house, as Dave and I watched, very carefully. Kazha then wandered through a gap in the fence to the alley. Wanting to make sure she didn't get too far, I skirted around the observing deer one way, Dave another, and we cornered the dog. As she tried to escape us by dashing back into the yard, she startled the deer, who then bounded backwards and back over the fence. It was rather surprising and funny! We then observed that there were three deer hanging out in the yard. Perhaps the same three that were fawns last year?

Anyway, we wandered around town the first day, just enjoying the view and the relaxation. I got a lot of knitting done that day, and Dave started a new Tony Hillerman book. Mom and Dad read and relaxed, too. We had a nice gazpacho for lunch that my mom made. Yummy! Then we went to Nanda Ghan's, a great local restaurant I'd recommend to anyone, for dinner. After that, we took a great long walk, which is where all the sunset photos came from. This is one of my favorites--the East Spanish Peak with the last rays of pink light on it, and the moon shining above...



The next day, on the 4th, Dave and I went for a hike at Blue and Bear Lakes... a little too crowded for our taste, but storm clouds threatened, so we really couldn't go anywhere farther. Still, I got some nice photos of flowers and Kazha on the trail.





And that gave us enough time to get back into town and go to Art in the Park for the afternoon. That's after my mom and dad went to the Cuchara parade. So we wandered, and we found this artist, R. Wade Brown. He had a wonderful piece we couldn't resist... stark white background with a petroglyph looking bison hunt image on it. Beautiful enough that we couldn't resist it. We're working on paying him in installments over the summer to purchase the piece. Hooray for layaway! Another artist there was Barbara Kowalik, who makes shields. She says the symbols are common ones, but she learns the common meanings and then interprets them herself in her works. Take a look at the bottom right of this page to see one, which is one of Dave's favorites. We'd each like to have one that represents each of us, someday. Carla Romero is another painter with works we would love to have someday... when we have a lot of room and more money. :) But admire her work, because it's very striking.

So then, on Saturday night we had barbecued ribs with my dad's homemade sauce (yum!) and baked potatoes and corn. And then everyone was exhausted, so Mom and Pop went to bed early and Dave and I stayed up to read, knit, and chat in a hush. Kazha was not thrilled with the fireworks, but she did okay, considering we didn't have her rescue remedy with us.

Sunday was a nice egg breakfast and then another long walk, this time up through the golf course. That's where I got the lovely bright daylight photos of the Spanish Peaks--Wahatoya. Seeing the clouds roiling over the peaks brought to mind the concept that local NDN tribes had that all weather for the whole world originated with the peaks. The lifeblood of the plains in the area comes from the clouds that have their start over those mountains. It's awestriking. Heh.



We bought our artwork on Sunday before having a last serving of gazpacho and a sandwich and heading back to Denver. A little bit north of Walsenburg, we ran into one of the worst storms I've encountered--and the worst one I've ever had to drive through. We had to pull over while the nearly golf-ball size hail pounded our car while lightning flashed around. The hail was strong enough that we couldn't hear thunder. We saw a few motorcyclists huddling in the high grass as we were able to start off again. We later learned that many bikers found shelter in the cars of other generous people. We'd have done the same if they'd been anywhere near us when we stopped. That hail had to hurt...

When we finally got going again, we encountered a serious accident, with one car that had flipped over, with the top crushed. Everyone else seemed okay, but we know people were trapped in that car. We saw one person's foot near a window, moving. Our prayers went and go out to those people in hopes that they are alright. Many had stopped to help, and we didn't want to be excessive help that would likely hinder, so we kept on. One of those who stopped was a truck driver, so we feel certain he probably radioed the accident in, while several others were directing traffic and trying to comfort those who were trapped. Still, I wish I could find news of the accident to know if the people are okay. I can't find any word...

We traveled on, going through two more storms that seemed much less intimidating, and finally got home to safety with a slightly spooked dog, arriving to find a cat desperate for attention. And, well, that's pretty much it. Nice break. Not long enough, but certainly nice.

Blessings to all our loved ones and anyone else who stumbles here--hope your weekend was as nice, whether or not you had a holiday to celebrate.

Peace


Just... wow

  • Jun. 26th, 2009 at 8:23 AM
Dave and Erin

Fifteen years. That's a lot of years for a human.

It's the years from birth to adolescence. The years from childhood to adulthood. The years from being in school to having one's own schoolchildren. From having a dream about the future to making it come true.

It's also the number of years Dave and I have been married. Happy anniversary, love. Ya tebya lyubil, moy Mishka.



Love and Peace
 



Thankful

  • Nov. 30th, 2008 at 1:30 PM
Dave and Erin
Well, the big rush of Thanksgiving is mostly past... but we're making our own turkey today, with as many trimmings as I can handle... heh.

Still, I wanted to express some thanks. It's been a rough year, offering some major challenges that have done some great good and brought some great sorrow... and I want to acknowledge gratitude for all of it.

I'm thankful that I still have a job. No matter what else happens, right now we can still afford food, shelter, and other necessities where we are. For all those who don't have these blessings, I send out my goodwooshes that the gifts of life and health and spirit be given them, too.

I'm thankful for my other pursuits, too. For theater, for music, for knitting and writing and all those things that I have to keep me busy, necessary, inspired... and that give me meaning.

I'm grateful for Sasha, this sweet kitty who gives such love and such fun and brings such a bright light to this house. I look forward to her feeling at peace again, and having the full reign of the house, and sleeping with both of us, together, happy and safe and loved.

I offer sincere thanks for the experience of having Sa'rits in our lives. It's been very hard, but it has taught us a lot. And it's given us a chance to save a life and become someone else's angels. Next week, after Wednesday, we're surrendering her to the local husky rescue for a better chance at finding the right place to be. She deserves it. And I feel honored to have served as a part of the Providence that will make sure she gets it. If that is what our love can give her, all the sadness and struggle and trouble has been worth it.

I'm thankful, even in my grief, for the lives of Tika and Basha and the fact that they are always with us, inhabiting our house and our hearts and our memories. Having them in our lives was one of the greatest blessings we could have encountered.

I'm so grateful for my love and his patience and his talent and his presence in my life. Everything he is in my life represents growth, love... seeking that grail.

I'm thankful to be home in the place of my birth, near most of my family, where we can spend our time with loved ones young and old, have relationships with our parents that go beyond the usual. It's, again, something many people don't have--either proximity or good relations with their families. And I recognize that and am humbled that I am so lucky to get along not only with my own family, but also with my in-laws. It's amazing.

My gratitude extends to the lives of family that have passed on... grandparents, ancestors. My heritage is a gift not to be taken lightly. For all those who came before, I am grateful.

And for my friends, of course, I am deeply thankful. Those I know only by words on a screen but who have always been there for me since the first day we met (and I will always be there for you)... those I connect with mostly only by phone but who share a devotion that makes every visit seem as if not a day has passed since the last time we saw one another... and those who are nearby, with whom I share daily laughter, tears, conversation, spirit, and love.

The relationships we make, keep, and, yes, even lose, are true life's blood. I'm blessed with loved ones from all areas of life, with a sense of purpose and Good Work, and with the knowledge that life is a great gift in itself. Thank you, Most Blessed One, Great Mystery--and thank you, all those beloved who have been or are now in my life.

In turn, what a great gift is the snow coming down outside my window. For every blessed flake, a prayer of gratitude.

Peace


Jumping out of the box...

  • Apr. 7th, 2008 at 11:28 AM
Dave and Erin

… mostly because I need to. My mind is still on sad things, and that’s okay. But I want to bring in happy things, too.

So, before Tika got sick, I had posted this meme that I got from a friend:

Everyone has things they blog about. Everyone has things they don't blog about. Challenge me out of my comfort zone by telling me something I don't blog about, but you'd like to hear about, and I'll write a post about it.

The only request I’ve received so far (I’m up for others, so keep ‘em coming!) is to blog about how Dave and I met. Some of you might know the story…

Dave and I met in college. I was a sophomore, and he was a freshman. We were both in choir, and had a mutual friend there. One day, that mutual friend was being tickled relentlessly by him, and I went to her rescue. We all went to the chow hall, and Dave and I spent some of the evening talking about and whistling through a piece of music we both love—Night on Bald Mountain by Modest Mussorgsky, which most people remember as the music that accompanied the demon on the mountain in the original Fantasia. That’s when we became friends.

Over the next year or so, Dave came to feel more for me, and I was oblivious. It was very silly of me, really. He said he tried to ask me out three times, and it didn’t work. Our friendship blossomed, but he was about to give up. Finally, after a choir concert—at which I had met his parents for the first time—we went back and sat in his dorm room and he told me he loved me. I told him I wasn’t sure. Yeah, goofball.

Together, we went to visit some other friends—my freshman roommate and another choir member and close friend of Dave’s who was now my roommate’s roommate (not quite as confusing as it reads, I think). I found out later that evening talking to this fellow singer that it was she who kept encouraging Dave to try again, that she was sure he and I would be good together, and that he had really fallen for me. My hesitation dissolved at that point. I went into the kitchen (where a dejected Dave was doing their dishes to burn off steam) and said, “Let’s give it a try.”

Eight months after that, we were engaged. Two years later again, we got married, newly graduated baby-faces that we were. The whole thing was not without its occasional difficulties, of course—what good relationship is perfect sailing? But I’m certain that has only made it stronger. It’s quite a ride, but darnit, I love ‘im.

So, there it is.

Peace

Oh, and PS: we've been married for 13 years and a little over 9 months.

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